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Results Over Process
In an era of curated realities, people are more interested in the photo than the story behind it.

Elsa Oguya
Aug 142 min read
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Thereâs Another in the Fire
Let me remind you of a story. Not just any story, but a fire story. One that reminds us that the fire doesnât mean God has abandoned you.

Elsa Oguya
Aug 52 min read
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Fruit of Your Loins
Iâm a woman raising boys who will one day be men, and I refuse to raise another generation that thinks emotional distance is masculinity.

Elsa Oguya
Jul 312 min read
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Lessons from My Wilderness
My wilderness taught me to stop justifying behavior that was clearly beneath me. To stop mistaking breadcrumbs for feasts.

Elsa Oguya
Jul 232 min read
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Your Jonah Moment
Sometimes we find ourselves in these moments where weâre just not ready to let go of something that God has clearly told us to release or to go on an assignment we arenât ready to face.

Elsa Oguya
Jul 213 min read
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Run Into the Storm!
Through all the storms, I have learnt how tough I am built, and those that almost broke me left me with lessons.

Elsa Oguya
Jul 172 min read
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From Sugarcane to Solutions
Muhoroni is more than a sugarcane town. Itâs a town of visionaries, creators, and changemakers.

Elsa Oguya
Jul 162 min read
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Tea in My Mug
I hope this reminds you: your âSuper Semaâ moment is coming. Maybe not exactly how you pictured it, but in a way that will make you sit back one day, smile at your mug of tea.

Elsa Oguya
Jul 122 min read
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Elsa, Where Is Your Huzband?
I will marry out of want, not need. Thereâs power in that distinction.

Elsa Oguya
Jun 292 min read
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Creating Room for Individuality
This chapter of my life has been about reclaiming who I am, not just as a mother, not just as a co-parent, but as Elsa. A woman who is allowed to have dreams, make mistakes, laugh loudly, take space, and say no.

Elsa Oguya
Jun 232 min read
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Where Was the Man?
Letâs be honest, itâs easier to blame than to be fair. But fairness is what we need. Accountability is for everyone.

Elsa Oguya
Jun 22 min read
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Itâs Midnight Again....
Tonight, I keep thinking about how the devil thrives in secrecy.

Elsa Oguya
May 241 min read
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Diapers, Deadlines & Doubts: What Life Is Teaching Me at Midnight
Over the years, through joy, heartbreak, diapers, deadlines, and deep personal growth, life has taught me a few profound lessons. Maybe youâll see yourself in them too.

Elsa Oguya
May 12 min read
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The Silent Weight of Solo Parenthood
It takes two to make a baby, yet the number of women who are out here raising them alone keeps rising.

Elsa Oguya
Mar 302 min read
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The Red String of Fate: Are We Truly Destined for One Person?
By now, you all know that I love love, and if this isnât your cup of tea, sip from somewhere else.

Elsa Oguya
Feb 201 min read
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Unpredictable Hearts: A tale as old as time.
They talked, not just about the weathered memories of their childhood but about the lives theyâd lived apart.

Elsa Oguya
Nov 26, 20242 min read
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Queen Mother
Now, it's my turn to be a mommy. I am the mother my kids look up to.
To be fearless, wise, and always present.

Elsa Oguya
Aug 20, 20241 min read
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Unpredictable Hearts: A Tale of Two in the City
Six months ago, a door swung open. On one side stood the striking Mr. M, and on the other side was the lovely, shy Lady S.

Elsa Oguya
Mar 12, 20242 min read
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Platonic Love: A Social Experiment on Expressing Affection with Close Male Friends.
Ladies, do you tell your male platonic friends that you love them?
Hayaaa, let's discuss.

Elsa Oguya
Nov 8, 20232 min read
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Unbroken Bonds: A Tribute to Pepe's Legacy
Consider this a tribute board for Pepe's memory. If you have any stories you'd like to share about him, please feel free to leave a comment.

Elsa Oguya
Nov 6, 20232 min read
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